The rite of peace, which was restored to all Masses in the 1970 Missal, has fallen onto hard times. Although some Catholics wholeheartedly praise it as the “highpoint of the Mass” (as one of my priest friends has been told several times by his parishioners), others view the matter differently. The 2005 Eucharistic Synod worried that the greeting has assumed “a dimension that could be problematic,” as “when it is too prolonged” or “causes confusion.” [1] In Sacramentum Caritatis Pope Benedict XVI spoke of the peace becoming “exaggerated” by emotion and causing “a certain distraction” before Holy Communion. [2] Consequently, the Supreme Pontiff not only called for “greater restraint” in the gesture of peace but even raised the question as to whether it should be moved to another part of the Mass. [3] His question was answered in 2014 by the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Sacraments, which decided to keep the Sign of Peace in its historic place in the Roman Rite.
How could such an ostensibly bright hallmark of the new liturgy become the object of such abuse and uncertainty? And what was the rationale to keep the status quo nevertheless? As will be made clear in this essay, Paschaltide is an especially appropriate time to contemplate these issues.
The Holy Kiss
The “holy kiss,” as St. Paul calls it, [4] has almost always been an important component of the Mass. Originally the kiss—which was a full, lip-on-lip act—was given to members of the same and opposite sex; but by the late second century Church Fathers like Clement of Alexandria were complaining that a lascivious element between men and women was creeping into the proceedings. This problem was solved by segregating the sexes to different sides of the nave, a practice that was still being recommended as late as the 1917 Code of Canon Law.
The Embrace of Saints Peter and Paul, late 15th century
Similarly, like most other kinds of kissing, the liturgical kiss was seen as an intimate gesture, the kind of thing one would only do within one’s family. Hence, the kiss was not given to “non-family members” such as heretics or catechumens. This principle was relatively easy to observe, since the early Church dismissed non-initiates after the homily, before the kiss was given.
The kiss remained a vital part of the liturgy until the mid-1200s, when it began to fall into disuse, and no one is certain why. The Church tried to sustain the rite by using a paten-like object called a “pax-brede.” This object, which can to this day still be used even at a Low Mass, is kissed by the priest, then the servers, then the laity, in order of rank. Eventually—perhaps because of disputes within the laity over who outranked whom—the pax-brede was restricted to the most notable dignitaries present, as we see in the 1962 rubrics.
Pax Brede, Cluny
The ritual kiss remained as well, though the laity ceased taking part in it and though it remained limited to Solemn High Masses. It also underwent a gradual modification. By the time Pope St. Pius V codified the Missal, actual kissing was no longer a part of it. The giver of the peace placed his hands on the recipient’s shoulders and leaned forward towards his left cheek saying Pax tecum, to which the recipient replied, Et cum spiritu tuo. The rubrics state that the cheeks of giver and recipient should “lightly touch,” though rubricians interpreted this as “a moral, not a physical touch”! [5]
Moral touching only, please
While the Tridentine kiss may seem a bit rarified, it nevertheless maintains the phenomenology of a kiss while circumventing all of a kiss’s potential drawbacks, such as the moral dangers of untoward eros or the legitimate concern for physical hygiene. Indeed, the word “accolade,” which originally meant either an embrace or a kiss marking the bestowal of knighthood, comes from the Latin ad collum, “to the neck,” because the act of falling on someone’s neck betokens a kiss. (Note how the father kisses his prodigal son in Luke 15, 20). This is important, for in preserving the kiss’s form, the Roman peace was still able to evince the rich tradition from which it was derived.
The traditional kiss of peace
Moreover, the Tridentine pax preserved an already centuries-old tradition of ordered administration. In the 1962 Missal the priest kisses the altar near the Host (earlier rubrics have him kissing the Host itself) and then “kisses” the deacon who in turn “kisses” the subdeacon and so on. No one can give the peace who has not received it from someone else, including the priest, who has received it from Christ Himself.
The symbolism is both beautiful and clear. All true peace comes from Christ through the ministration of His Church. Grace cascades from the Eucharist through Christ’s ministers to His people, forming a “chain of love” that both binds and elevates. This is further echoed in the etiquette governing the ritual. While it is common in the Tridentine rite to bow to one’s ecclesiastical superior at incensations, one does not acknowledge the rank of the peace-giver before it is administered, for, as the rubrics put it, “there is consideration not for the minister bringing it but for the Peace [itself].” [6]
Placing the Kiss
Another important feature of the kiss in the early Church is that there were two different places where it was given. All Eastern rites and several Western rites placed the kiss somewhere around the Offertory, while the churches in Rome and North Africa placed it after the Consecration. This divergence has caused considerable confusion among liturgists, some of whom see the Roman and North African usage as an unwarranted departure from apostolic times. The kiss of peace, they claim, is inspired by our Lord’s admonition to “be reconciled to thy brother” before offering “thy gift at the altar” (Matt. 5, 23-24), and hence the Roman rite should, following the example of the East, have the kiss at the Offertory.
The Paschal Kiss
What these authors overlook, however, is that there is not one theological rationale undergirding the kiss but two. While the Eastern kiss, which we may call the “conciliatory kiss,” is indeed grounded in Matthew 5, 23-24, the Roman kiss, which we may label the “Paschal kiss,” takes its bearings not from the Sermon on the Mount but from the Paschal mystery stretching from the Last Supper to the Resurrection. That Paschal kiss has at least four distinct meanings.
Peace
First and foremost, the Roman kiss not only betokens peace but confers it. The kiss was seen not a “sign of peace” or even the sign of peace—it was peace. The Roman liturgical books simply refer to the kiss as the pax. While this may certainly include reconciliation and forgiveness, the peace itself, as the 2004 Redemptionis Sacramentum explicitly states, is not done primarily for this reason. [7]
The Risen Christ
Second, the Paschal kiss symbolizes the Paschal Lamb, the resurrected and glorified Christ. In St. John’s Gospel, the risen Jesus appears to the Apostles and, after saying “Peace be with you,” breathes the Holy Spirit onto them, a breath that gives them the power to forgive sins (John 20, 20-23). Although the Latin Fathers rightly interpreted this passage as the institution of the sacrament of penance, they also saw Christ’s communication of the Holy Spirit through His breath as a kind of kiss. Hence the whole scene is redolent of the kiss of peace.